How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 17.06.2025 00:10

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Is it ok to be spanked by your parents if you are not in bed in your set bedtime?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Hangs out with loser friends.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Why was the rock band Kiss so successful?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
What I need from you?
Why has Biden pulled ahead in battleground states and is now projected to win the 2024 presidency?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
What happens to single guys when they get older?
Procrastinates a lot.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
That's it for today.
What is the American mobile phone number format?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Making more friends is a goal.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Has anyone ever had sex with their cousin? How did it start, and would you do it again?
Do not set goals—set systems.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Ask yourself:
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Does not procrastinate.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?